Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Hands (Photos)

The video from the previous post has been fixed: It now has sound.

Loki is developing new skills very rapidly. I am used to helping children develop every news skill with lots of support and encouragement. Somehow our little guy figures it all out by himself. Just like typical babies do. I guess I did not really expect him to do that, given how excited and surprised I am. He chews and licks his hands, licks the mirror when having tummy time, and all of a sudden he holds on to a rattler. When I give him a shaker for some great fun, before I know it he puts it in his mouth and suckles on it as if yummy treats are coming straight out of the wood. He is smiling up a storm wiggling his whole body in delight and he is becoming more talkative as well. He seems to be getting a sense of strangers and when held by somebody he does not know well, he makes the saddest face ever seen. Lips tremble and corners of the mouth almost reach to the bottom of his little chin :-( This disappears when I cuddle him again. Loki is overall pretty calm, but has several episodes a day where he gets excited, just because, and he bounces on his legs when held at chest level. Most of the day though his eyes are almost popping out of his head when he looks around taking in his surroundings. Lots of ooohs and aaahs in our house these days.

In addition, he is getting the hang of breastfeeding, wooo hooooo!!. We do not know yet if he gained weight, but his sucks are stronger and his swallowing louder. He dislikes the bottle but we try to offer him two bottles a day a. to give him his meds, b. to give me a break, c. to give him some extra calories. It is often quite a struggle. Loki pushes the bottle away or shuts his lips tight. Cute to see but not so convenient!!

Oma and the little dude:


Aunty Sar:


Mommy and Loki early in the morning in the yard for coffee:


Our first baby visit in the home, our friends from the NICU:


Oh yeah, we have two cats too:

11 comments:

Kyra said...

Ah wow. He looks like you, oma Heleen! And good to see you too, Auntie S! Many great developments. Breast is the best, Loki! Just develop a good schedule next and you get to drink only breast milk. Lijn, you look so healthy though I know you must be tired. great that it is finally getting to work. No, there really aren't words for this. I read on my scheurkalender yesterday: devotion is the result of devotion. That is you! And finally, Loki found a girlfriend! I wish I was here to celebrate spring with you.

Have fun, keep up the good stuff.

Love,

Kyra

Kyra said...

by the way: of course he is getting heavier if he drinks stronger!

Kyra said...

Loki is een wonderkind!

Richard en Maaike said...

Hoi lieve mom en dad,
Wat een geluk moet dat voor je zijn, dat je eigen kleine mannetje alles 'gewoon' vanzelf doet. Ik herken het gevoel, maar ik denk dat het bij jou nog grote is, omdat Loki niet 'gewoon' is. Alle stapjes die hij maakt zijn zo bijzonder, omdat je weet hoe het anders kan. Maar ook simpelweg omdat het jouw kind is die dit kunstje maar gewoon even flikt alsof het niets is. Dus geniet ervan (waarschijnlijk soms met tranen in je ogen van geluk, verbazing, trots en liefde)!
En Loki, het is ook nooit goed he? Dronk je niet goed aan de borst, zaten ze te zeuren. Nu drink je aan de borst, is het weer niet goed ;-) We zijn trots op je hoor!
Dikke kus Maaike

Unknown said...

Wow. I'm so glad the nursing is going better. You can tell he is a breast baby. He looks incredibly healthy. You have just done a fabulous job, and I know you couldn't have done it half as well but for Daddy's help, so hooray to him to. Really, Mommy, that baby is thriving. I predict next summer you will be chasing him all over the place with him laughing and shouting "NO" like any other toddler.
Congratulations. Loki, you are the Wonder Boy and your parents are Superheroes!

marieke said...

This is so great to read! I'm so proud of my big nephew. What a releave (?) to find out he does the normal baby-growing- things until now. MArtin and I are telling eachother how amazing it is Loki does develop so good and strongly! He is a wonderkind like Kyra said.
I made the decision to come over around his birthday if that is ok. That would be so great!!
Big hug, also for oma, X Marieke

Frits said...

Oh Loki, it's good to hear you do improve so much. and seeing you is missing you, and oh yes, heleen, kathalijn and jesse too! Loki, keep on doing the good work. Love y'all, Frits

Circe said...

Bedankt voor de mooie foto's en goede berichten!
Liefs van Circe

Anonymous said...

Ha lieve familie,

wat leuk om Loki zo te horen ; praten' en te zien bewegen! Dat brengt het allemaal zo dichtbij.
Ook fijn om alle goede berichten te lezen. Het gaat nu scht de goede kant op.
Ik kan me overigens herinneren dat fles& borst voor een babies een lastige combinatie is. Vaak kiezen ze dan de fles, omdat dit minder kracht kost. Loki maakt de goede keus!
Veel liefs, ook voor mijn nicht-zusje, Judith

berkeleygal77 said...

Loki has a girlfriend ;-)

berkeleygal77 said...

PS, is the little girl in the picture older than Loki, or just taller? She looks really healthy, too.

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Loki Sky is a special little man. He was a very early micropreemie, weighing only 610 grams (1 lb, 5 oz) after 24 weeks, 3 days gestation, born to an American Father and a Dutch Mother in Berkeley, California on October 18, 2008.

On January 11, 2009, while still in the hospital NICU, his one kidney stopped working. It was repaired after three surgeries. After spending time in three hospitals in three cities, Loki came home on February 17. He struggled with eating, and then stopped in July, leading to 8 days in the hospital, a failure-to-thrive diagnosis, and a NG feeding tube. On October 10, a minor surgery installed a G feeding tube. Another procedure replaced it with a new one, and then again with a Mic-Key button in Jan. 2010.

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