Friday, November 7, 2008

A different image for Loki

Sorry for the lack of posts yesterday. All is OK as far as I know. Mom will call me with today's report, and I'll post in a couple hours. For now, though, I'd like to say a few things about developments in the news this week from the perspective of a new father.

I have been engaged in news and policy for some time. These things take on a strange new importance as a father. I can no longer fall back on mere cynicism and think, "To hell with it all!" It is now Loki's future too.

My reaction to the electoral changes this week are not simply partisan politics. And it's not even primarily about policies. My feeling today focuses on perception and image, which are more important than one may think.

As an American who occasionally travels abroad, I have been in an awkward position in recent years. If you haven't done so yourself, it is difficult to perceive the dramatic shift in recent years in how people around the world view the US. (I highly recommend reading this and that.)

Loki is a dual American-Dutch citizen, likely spending much of his childhood in the Netherlands with an American father. I don't want him to be asked the accusatory questions as I have, with their mixture of disbelief and disgust. In my experience, Europeans truly want to like America. I look forward to my child being asked about, and associated with, a shining city upon a hill, a beacon of opportunity, diversity, engagement, justice, and freedom - not a dark cloud of confrontation and aggression looming overhead.

Despite all that his tiny body faces physically, I have much hope for Loki's future. Now, it's just a bit more.

1 comments:

marieke said...

Lieve mom, dad and Loki,
Those are beautifull words dad. I can imagine (I think) how important the future of your country is while being a father. Lieve mom, please take good care of yourself. Like Frits is saying, being with Loki is also possible by mind. Combined with visits and time for yourself Loki has the most profit. I will give you massages when I'm in the states!Lots of love and a little kusje voor Loki. XX

About Loki Sky

Loki Sky is a special little man. He was a very early micropreemie, weighing only 610 grams (1 lb, 5 oz) after 24 weeks, 3 days gestation, born to an American Father and a Dutch Mother in Berkeley, California on October 18, 2008.

On January 11, 2009, while still in the hospital NICU, his one kidney stopped working. It was repaired after three surgeries. After spending time in three hospitals in three cities, Loki came home on February 17. He struggled with eating, and then stopped in July, leading to 8 days in the hospital, a failure-to-thrive diagnosis, and a NG feeding tube. On October 10, a minor surgery installed a G feeding tube. Another procedure replaced it with a new one, and then again with a Mic-Key button in Jan. 2010.

In August 2010, he and his parents moved to the Netherlands.

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