A quick note regarding the baby shower

Today, I attended a baby shower for Loki while Mom stayed in the hospital. It was certainly strange in a number of ways: Dad was at the baby shower but not Mom; the baby is already born; the baby is in the hospital having problems; etc. But it was an extremely rewarding experience for me, and I believe for Mom and Loki as well, despite their absence. Nevertheless, Loki continued to live up to his troublemaker namesake by choosing today, of all days, to ask to go to a different hospital. I wish I could have stayed longer, and Mom very much wishes that she could have been there (but knows she made the right decision).

It was very encouraging to be reminded of what a strong network of support we have. Some of the statements during the circle were extremely moving, and will not be forgotten. We would not be functioning without the help and support of those here in the bay area, as well as those in Indiana, the Netherlands, and beyond.

It was also heel nederlands (very Dutch) to see those who were able to stay for the beschuit met muisjes, the traditional Dutch snack for celebrating a new baby.

I still have quite a few of the "party favors," the photo of Loki which I printed up for all the guests. If you forgot to grab one (or weren't there, but want one) let me know and I can drop one in the mail.

I have some video and photos, which I may post elsewhere and send out the link via email, in order to maintain some privacy. If you took videos and/or photos, please send those my way. Drop me an email and we can work something out for the large files.

Thank you all for making it, thank you for your food, and thank you for your gifts. Mom and I will open them soon.

Special thanks go to Laureen and Sarah for organizing, to Sarah and Mitch for hosting, and to Laura for leading the grounding ceremony and circle.

Loki, Mom, and I are sincerely grateful.