Tuesday, February 17, 2009

The finish line is within sight

Wow, we are almost there. We should bring Loki home tomorrow morning. All he needs to do is to pass the car seat test, in which he sits in our car safety seat for one hour without any problems. This is because some babies are not able to sit somewhat upright without a blood oxygen desaturation. I am not worried about it.

Coincidentally, yesterday Loki only got food via breast feeding. This is quite a development, as Mom has been working on this for two months. However, there is no way to tell how much milk he got, and there is a good chance that he's not getting enough. It is more difficult to get food this way, and he gets tired. He's also lost a small amount of weight in recent days, probably due to the adjustment to breastfeeding.

This development had a big impact on our overnight last night in the hospital. Because he may not be getting enough food at each feeding, it was critical that he at least eat every three hours. Well, Loki decided that he would rather be a troublemaker than a baby, and preferred to sleep all night instead of feeding. Most "new" parents would be very happy if their baby had this preference. But we needed Loki to eat. So Mom tried to wake him for him to eat. First some talking, then some movement. But he would only slurp once or twice, and then doze off. She had to escalate up to tickling his feet, and then to placing a chilly wet wash cloth on his face. That certainly woke him up! As a result, between feeding Loki, waking Loki, some breast pumping, and just being nervous, Mom did not sleep at all last night.

My mother, or "nana," arrived today. She was extremely excited to see big boy Loki. She had previosuly visited right after his birth. But he was so very tiny then, and she was unable to touch him as he lay in his isolette. (That is like an imaginary different world to me now.) This time, she held him, and she and I have him a bath.

I forgot to mention that, a few days ago, Loki had an eye exam. His eye condition - ROP - was previosuly stage 3 (moderate) in both eyes. But the doctor reported that it decreased to stage 1 (mild) in one eye, and disappeared in the other! I hope this is accurate. In so many ways, he is ready to leave the hospital.

A couple photos are below. There are some better ones coming soon.

Tomorrow promises to be a big day in our family.

Happy family:


Loki says, "Oh, Hi Mom!"

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh my god, so much good news! I'm so proud of him. His eyes: it's amazing. Another worry that's getting less ans less. You are really a family with a newborn now. Everybody says breastfeeding is so nice and good, but it's also difficult and a struggle sometimes. So you do great :-)
All the best for today, this very big day!!!
Kus Maaike

berkeleygal77 said...

the most beautifful pictures imaginable.

Anonymous said...

Good grief. I'm sitting here crying with joy at 11 pm. Congratulations, family.

Anonymous said...

You are shining! Ans so are we! Congrats!!!!!!!
Heleen and Frits.

Mascha said...

Love your family picture. He looks like a 'big' baby now.

Wonderful news about ROP.

Have a great home coming.

marieke said...

Wow, he is big! And you both look so proud! I hope Loki will be home in a day. Great news about his eyes and he will pass the car seat test for sure.

It's normal to have the unreal and somewhat "standing outsidë the situation" feeling dad. everything will be ok!!

Realy big hug for the 3 of you!! XX Marieke

Kyra said...

Loki (little muppet) should I say again that I am really proud of you? I should! And I have a lot of confidence that your mom and dad will do the job just fine. It will be a little bit of a shake in some directions, but then everything will fit very well and you can gaze your curious eyes around the house and think: this is mine. I am the prince in this kingdom, and look at them doing their best for me! And then you can hug and cuddle as much as you like, for that is what little princes do. Not much more than that and sleep and poo and pee and then maybe keep the neighbors awake. So little muppet prince, welcome home and relax. You have the greatest parents (and one extra nana for a while, and then the other) to watch over you. Lots of love, Kyra

Anonymous said...

lieve 3, wat een mooie foto,
zo blij, zo gelukkig, het spat er vanaf.
wat is je haar kort, leuk.
Geniet samen, tot morgen
liefs van Greet

Anonymous said...

I love the pictures!
X Maaike

marieke said...

O dear, it is morning for you now. Hope I can sleep at the other side of the world:-) Nana cleaned the house for sure very carefully and Loki, you will arive in your own house! This is so different from the hospital. I bet you'll miss all your favorite nurses but now mom and dad are with you also at night!

I want to say thanks to the AB angel living in SF who took care of my sister the last week! Mom felt good under your wings.

From now on pictures from Loki in the house, his bed, the couch, with dad, in the bath, with mom, with his toys...wouwie.

Hug, Marieke

BUCK! said...

ohwww,
naar huis op mijn verjaardag!
we zullen er minimaal eentje meer drinken.
Groet
Marcel (en Gam)

Magnolia Helena said...

Yeah! You are such a beautiful family.!!!!
We can't wait to play.
Love,
Matt, Luna, and Magnolia

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Loki Sky is a special little man. He was a very early micropreemie, weighing only 610 grams (1 lb, 5 oz) after 24 weeks, 3 days gestation, born to an American Father and a Dutch Mother in Berkeley, California on October 18, 2008.

On January 11, 2009, while still in the hospital NICU, his one kidney stopped working. It was repaired after three surgeries. After spending time in three hospitals in three cities, Loki came home on February 17. He struggled with eating, and then stopped in July, leading to 8 days in the hospital, a failure-to-thrive diagnosis, and a NG feeding tube. On October 10, a minor surgery installed a G feeding tube. Another procedure replaced it with a new one, and then again with a Mic-Key button in Jan. 2010.

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